Irvine Matchmakers Reveal 5 Rules of Being a Great Girlfriend

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The dating world is completely different than what it used to be. Women today don’t have to put up with things from men anymore. Women are in a much better position when it comes to equality in their relationships. Being a great girlfriend today isn’t about cooking for and clean up after your boyfriend – it’s more about meeting five different requirements.

Today, our Irvine matchmakers here at Orange County Singles Dating Service are going to show you how to be a great girlfriend.

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1. You’re sexually adventurous.

You don’t have to be willing to do anything and everything to be a great girlfriend, but you do have to be open to talking about new things that your guy wants to try in order to spice up the relationship. And every once in a while, you should jump in and give something that you’re on the fence about a try. You never know how you feel about things otherwise, right?

2. You play the long game.

Yes, we’re talking about marriage. Most men don’t want to settle down until they’re making the kind of money they want to be making. It’s an ego thing. They want to be able to provide for their wives and families. If you lock this in, then you’ll be a lot happier and so will your boyfriend. Besides, a modern woman knows she doesn’t need a ring to be valuable – and if it’s important to her, she’ll ask for it and either get it or move on.

3. You’re fully independent.

Gone are the days of couples spending every second of the day together. Now more than ever, people love doing their own things. There’s so much to do and experience and we don’t always want to do it with the same person all the time. Great modern girlfriends are independent. That means that they have their own friends and hobbies and that they enjoy a little me time every now and then. No one wants to feel attached at the hip at all times. Even the most codependent couples need a little break to be happy.

4. You’re okay being single.

Guys respect nothing more than a woman that’s more than ready to leave him at any point for the right reason. They don’t just put up with these types of women, they love them. If he gets you and knows that there’s almost nothing he could do to lose you, that dulls his desire to keep you as his girlfriend.

A woman that understands and makes it clear to her guy that she doesn’t need him is a huge turn on. More than that, this woman keeps her guy on his toes, and if things should go south, then she’ll just walk away – no questions asked. Is there a better way to live and love? We don’t think so.

5. You have your own money.

Long gone are the days of most guys being perfectly happy to have a stay-at-home wife. Things are very competitive today, economically speaking. While you don’t have to be a mogul, you do need to have a full-time job and pay for your own things. You don’t want a guy to look at you and think he’s going to have to support you for the rest of his life. If you’re going to be a great girlfriend (and one day his wife), then you have to be financially independent. And honestly, why wouldn’t you want to be?

If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded singles in Orange County, contact our Irvine matchmakers today and let us help you find true love. Let us introduce you to quality singles in Orange County who are a perfect fit for you!

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