Orange County Matchmakers Reveal 3 Signs He’s into Himself

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There are thousands of quality single men in Orange County, so why are you wasting your time with the wrong one? Whether you’re just starting to talk and get to know each other or you’ve been dating for a while, you might be realizing this guy isn’t who you thought he was. Our Orange County matchmakers know exactly what you’re going through.

It seems like whatever you do, you just can’t get through to him. He’s completely zoned out in his own little world, and there is absolutely no way that you can get his attention.

If your boyfriend is just a little self-obsessed, that’s okay. That means there is actually have a good chance to get through him and change his ways. All that you need to do is figure out a way to get to him to stop focusing on himself too much and give you his full attention. However, if he’s completely self-absorbed, arrogant, and even aggressive, it might be time to throw in the towel.

1. He’s convinced he can date anyone.

If the guy you’re into/dating is giving off this vibe, then he is totally into himself too much. He’s so used to being the best in everything in life that he often forgets that he doesn’t actually rule the world. Unfortunately for you, in is head, he could totally get any girl he wants just by looking at her.

He definitely thinks he could date anyone in the world if he’s constantly starting new conversations with random girls that may be out of his league. In his eyes, any girl would love to date him. If he’s actually trying to prove his point all the time, you need to walk away. You don’t deserve to be disrespected by your guy talking to other women. However, if it’s just something you both joke about, you might have some headway.

2. He puts himself first all the time.

There is absolutely no one more important to him than, well, him. Even when he finds himself completely in love in a relationship, he still goes out of his way to put himself in the number one spot. He knows his worth and is not going to let anyone in the world get in front of him.

While we can all use the right amount of self-confidence, he’s completely gone overboard and become obsessed with himself. That’s because he isn’t scared to put himself first in superficial ways. He’s not willing to experience any minor inconveniences in his direction, even if it means it’s benefiting some else, like you, his girlfriend or new love interest.

If he isn’t able to get the best possible outcome in whatever he’s doing, he isn’t scared to walk away, and that should be very scary to you.

3. He isn’t willing to settle down.

You totally know that he’s self-obsessed when he isn’t willing to settle down. That’s because he’s more obsessed with himself and having endless opportunities of putting himself first. He doesn’t want to be tied down in an official relationship, as that will prevent him from experiencing everything that the world has to offer to him. Sound familiar?

Instead, he would rather do his own thing without anyone in the world holding him back or keeping him down. He knows that if someone new comes along, he simply won’t be able to make the switch if he’s in a relationship. That’s why he’d rather put himself first and stay away from putting any labels on his love life. Unless, of course, it benefits him in some way.

Ladies, you don’t deserve someone who is disrespectful, doesn’t give you their time and attention, and can’t put a label on your romantic life. There are so many amazing men out there in the Orange County dating scene, so don’t get too wrapped up in dating the wrong one.

If you’re single and tired of dating guys who are self-obsessed, contact our Orange County matchmakers and let us introduce you to relationship-minded singles today. Let us do the hard work of scouting and screening for you so you can date with peace of mind – knowing that you are only meeting guys who are relationship-ready and emotionally fit to date.

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!


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